When one read of a celebrity or a student taking her own life, it makes me wonder, why would anyone wish to end what is essentially a beautiful LIFE ?
Loss of face , depression, weakness and fear of rejection by family and society are some the reasons for the dejection. All these points to one thing: lack of faith and stunted self growth.
" Depression is not what happens to us. It is due to what happens in us. "
However its failures and difficulties that makes life so interesting. Its unrealistic to accept success and profits all the time; it is foolhardy to consider life as nothing but a series of problems.
" Learn to live life as it bends and u will not break. "
During a emotional crisis we do need emotional support from our family and friends; but if this support is not available for some reason, it is necessary to find it within. Inner resource will help us to detach ourselves from the maya of illusion.
" For every hurt, for every suffered, For ever lonely painful moments. There is a reason. But if we trust God, as we should, It all will work for our good. He knows the reason. "
There is a deeper meaning in life which is not seen immediately; it gets revealed slowly, later in life.
but impatient we are, we cannot wait- in our haste we forget to live and so we lose touch with our inner self that could have given us immense strength.
Insecurity grows by leaps due to lack of trust, and that hinders bonding leads to absence of true emotional support. Add to this the excess of material values, which makes an individual self-conscious of his own weakness. He suffers low self-esteem.
If only we could trap in to our inner source, we would get empowered to face all odds. That is why it is so important to make the effort to shake hands with life; then it will meet us half way.
Unfortunately, fear of failure haunts most people. We sail in the same boat. We seek support and security in the relationship, in materialistic, in money, friends. But the basic insecurity lies within. It can be transformed only with faith; by mental and spiritual exercises.Ant to face the challenges at ground level lets pledge ourselves to makes ourselves strong; mentally as well as physically.